La Bella Emmy: September 2010

HELLO honey buns, its me Emmy as all of you already know. So todays topic that i want to focus on is the class and trash topic. we all know that we have all seen our share of those nasty females that dont even care about there image and there self worth and respect.i just wanted to say i'm not judging anybody technically but then again i'm stating my own opinion. i feel that all women are allowed to explore there not so lady like behavior once in there life , but after you reach a certain age its time to pack that phase up and mature. class is a very big thing with me i feel that us as women should be able to conduct ourselves in an appropriate manner. our mothers all taught us growing to keep our legs closed and crossed. so lets take that in to consideration, i know i'm not a saint and i have my share of skeletons hiding in the closet, but i do know that now that i'm a mature adult i have different standards for myself and my image. alot of females think that it is OK to go out in the streets and be loud and obnoxious.... no!! it absolutely is not OK and males tend to not like females that portray themselves as birds and hood rats.

i strongly feel that class will take you such a long way and it will also cause you to gain massive amounts of respect from outsiders. but let me just clear this up.... no one will respect you if you do not have respect for yourself! sometimes us females don't realize what comes out of our mouths may give off the image of a classy or trashy female. so watch what you say and how you say it (im still growing in that department). another thing fighting over useless reasons is also very unclassy.... why are you siting there in the middle of the street yelling on top of your lungs with a scarf on your head and sneakers getting ready to snatch a female up over a guy? or some other useless reason like that. see thats just plain nonsense and immaturity.One big major thing that gets to me alot is the things i see on social networking sites, like twitter... ladies ladies ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! why must you think its OK to post full nude or even half nude on the internet?? please explain this to me. yes i know everyone wants to feel sexy and what not but putting up half naked pics up of yourself doesn't give off an appropriate message. and why must you participate in those nonsense trendings like (#tittytuesday) now that is just ridiculous. Lets be serious now all those things are just adding to your self image.

Another thing ladies appearance is a must a big must! if you are a female then dress like it please! i know alot of people are not into fashion the way that i am but still make yourself look decent in public.... they always say the first impression is the one that most people will judge you off of.

TRASHY

1.not taking showers

2.not having manners

3.sleeping with countless men

4.acting a fool in public

5.not dressing lady like

6.hoodrat

7.sluts and smuts

8. starting drama

CLASSY

1.conducts herself in a lady manner

2. as manners